According to my Mom, there are a number of rules and regulations that one must abide by to have good fortune in the new year. I’m just a tiny bit superstitious, somewhat tradition minded (it keeps me in touch with my ancestors), and it’s relatively harmless.
On New Years Eve one is spend the day in quiet reflection. Partying and drinking doesn’t occur til much later, I guess.
Today is to be spent doing something you love. Something calm and comforting and probably something to recover from the night’s exertions. So the order of the day is breakfasting and happy times with friends and family, knitting, reading, or watching bad movies, whatever it is that brings you personal happiness and harms no one. In other words be self indulgent just this one day.
You are required to eat black eyed peas, with cornbread, whether you like it or not. I believe this is non-negotiable. I know it’s not very indulgent, if you don’t like black eyed peas, but do it anyway.😠😠
Do not ring water from any towels today. If you have wet towels you can only squeeze the water out with your hands. Don’t do laundry. Actually this is a good excuse not to wash anything in the house except yourself., and if you’re feeling especially lazy, or hungover, don’t do that either.
If you have visitors today, make sure your first visitor is a man, who steps in your front door, right foot first. Apparently women visitors are bad luck or something. I’m not sure how this works if your visitors are somewhere on the LGBT spectrum, though.
But above all else, spend your first day doing something you want to enjoy doing the rest of the year, with the people you love.